Private Parent Guidance · The 90-Day Reset

Your children don't need a different mother. They need you — steadier.

Private Torah-based parenting guidance for mothers who are done reacting — and ready to lead their home from clarity instead of adrenaline. A 90-day container, one-on-one with Sirkie Rothman.

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Before we go further

Is this the right room for you?

Private guidance is close, honest work. It is not for every mother, and it is not for every season. A quick read before you inquire.

This is for you if

You've read the books, tried the tips, and still feel like you're guessing.
You want to raise children rooted in Torah — and you want your own steadiness to match.
You're willing to look honestly at your own patterns, not just your child's.
You want a real relationship with one guide, not another program to consume.

This isn't for you if

You're looking for a quick script or a one-line fix.
You want a therapist or clinical care — that's important work, but it isn't this.
You'd rather stay private about what's actually happening at home.
You're not ready to make small, steady changes over three months.

Not sure which side you're standing in?

That's exactly what the free 10-minute clarity call is for — a short evaluation, no pressure to book anything after.

Book the clarity call

Clarity

Know what your child actually needs — and what your next step is.

Calm

Respond from a grounded place instead of reacting in the moment.

Skill

Grow the parenting skills that shape the child you are raising.

Connection

Rebuild trust, warmth, and real communication at home.

The invitation

“The answers are rarely found in doing more. They begin with seeing your child—and yourself—more clearly.”

Sirkie Rothman · Founder, Chinuch Compass

The offer

How we work together

The 90-Day Reset is the heart of how I work with parents — three months of private, one-on-one guidance where we slow down, look carefully at what's happening in your home, and build your steadiness from the inside out.

If you're not sure you're ready for that, a single working session lets us sit with one focused concern together. It's a real hour, not a sales call — one child, one pattern, one clear next step.

Continued Support is only for mothers who have already completed the 90-Day Reset. Some seasons need a lighter hand to keep what you've built alive.

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The 90-Day Reset · Main coaching package

The 90-Day Reset

Three months of steady, one-on-one work — so the way you parent by the end of it is not the way you parented at the start. The full Private Guidance Package.

Investment

₪2,700 / $900

Payment plan available:
3 monthly payments of ₪900 / $300

Private coaching

6 private coaching sessions over 3 months
Sessions twice a month
Focused support around your real parenting situations
Limited between-session email check-ins for clarification and follow-up

Learning between sessions

Temporary access to current Chinuch Compass class recordings during the 3-month package
A suggested listening path based on your goals
Guidance on which recordings are most relevant to your current parenting concerns

The recordings support the coaching process and give us a shared language between sessions.

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A single working session

₪300 / $100

One 60-minute session

For one loud, specific concern — one child, one pattern, one decision point. You leave with a written next step and clarity about whether the full Reset is right.

One 60-minute private working session with Sirkie
A short intake so the session starts already inside your real situation
One focused parenting concern — one child, one pattern, one decision point
A written next-step summary you can actually use that week

If you continue into the 90-Day Reset within 14 days, this session is credited in full toward the package.

At a glance

Compare the three paths.

	Starter	Private Guidance	Continued
Duration	One-off	3 months	Month-to-month
Sessions	1 session · 60 min	6 total · 2 per month	2 per month
Recordings	—	Full temporary access	As it supports the work
Price	₪300 / $100	₪2,700 / $900	₪600 / $200 mo

Continued Support is available after completing the 3-month package, not as a starting point.

How it works

A simple, unhurried path.

Book a free 10-minute clarity call.
Sirkie listens briefly to what is happening at home and helps you choose the right starting point.
If you begin private guidance, you start with a clear focus and a simple plan.
If you choose the 3-month package, you meet twice a month, learn from relevant recordings between sessions, and bring your real-life questions back.
After the 3-month package, you can decide whether continued monthly support would be helpful.

Foundations & Private Guidance

Which is right for you?

Foundations is the full Chinuch Compass learning journey — live teaching, group discussion, Q&A, recordings, one private session, and alumni support.

Private Guidance is more personal and focused. It is for a mother who wants help applying the approach to her specific child, home, or parenting pattern.

In Private Guidance, the recordings support the coaching and give us a shared language. Foundations remains the fuller live learning journey — pacing, community, and continued alumni support.

Who you'd be working with

Sirkie Rothman — one guide, a small number of mothers at a time.

Sirkie is a mother of 19 years and has spent the last 23 years inside chinuch — as a teacher, as a parent, and now as a parent coach. For nearly three years she has been teaching the Chinuch Compass model, first in group settings and more recently one-on-one with a small number of mothers, as the approach settled into what it is today.

Her work sits at a specific intersection: Torah-rooted chinuch, the Nurtured Heart Approach and other effective, research-informed parenting methods, and the emotional reality of the mother sitting across from her real child at the kitchen table. She doesn't hand out scripts. She helps mothers see clearly and respond from that clarity.

19: years a mother
23: years in chinuch
~3: years teaching this model

“My role isn't to give you a script. It's to help you understand your child, trust your role, and respond with clarity and calm authority.”

— Sirkie Rothman

What mothers say

In their own words.

These notes come from mothers in the Foundations course and the Weekly Chinuch Torah community — the same Torah-rooted lens that shapes private coaching.

“My 13-year-old said to me last night, 'Mommy, I'm actually a really good kid, right?' I just held her. A few weeks ago she was telling me she was the worst kid in the family. Nothing changed except how I started seeing her.”
Mother of 7
Weekly Chinuch Torah
“It literally changed my perspective on parenting and even shifted how I relate to myself. I loved how you brought in Torah perspective to give us clarity as to how this fits with Yiddishkeit and our tafkid.”
SW, Lakewood
Foundations course
“The most amazing part is showing the children their greatness, which I had not realized how to do on my own.”
LS
Foundations course

Quotes shared with permission from course participants and weekly-email readers. Private coaching is confidential — no testimonials are published from one-on-one work.

Before you inquire

The honest questions.

I've tried parenting books, courses, even coaching. What makes this different?: Most parenting resources hand you scripts. This is not that. The 90-Day Reset is a private, three-month relationship with one guide — Torah-rooted, honest about your specific home, and focused on your steadiness as much as your child's behavior. What sticks isn't the technique; it's who you become while you use it.
What if my husband isn't fully on board?: This is a very common starting point. Sirkie works with the parent who is ready. As your steadiness changes, the atmosphere in the home changes — and most husbands notice within weeks. You don't need his buy-in to begin; you need your own.
What if I can't commit to a full three months right now?: Then don't. Start with a single working session instead — one focused hour on the concern that's loudest right now, with a written next step. If, within 14 days, you decide the 90-Day Reset is right, ₪300 / $100 of what you paid may be credited toward it.
Is this therapy?: No. This is parent guidance and coaching. It supports parents in understanding behavior, responding more effectively, and applying chinuch principles at home. It does not replace therapy, diagnosis, or clinical care when that is needed — and Sirkie will say so plainly if she thinks that's what you need.
What if Foundations would actually be a better fit for me?: The clarity call is where that gets decided honestly. If the live Foundations program would serve you better than private guidance right now, Sirkie will tell you. The goal is the fit, not the sale.
What happens after the 90 days?: At the end, we look together at what has shifted, what still needs support, and whether continued month-to-month work would serve you. Many mothers step away; some continue quietly for another season. Neither is 'the right answer.'
Is the free clarity call a coaching session?: No. It's a 10-minute evaluation, not a session. Sirkie will ask a few questions to understand what's happening at home and whether private guidance is the right next step. There is no pressure to book anything after.

Book your clarity call

Reach out to Sirkie.

Share a little about your family and what's on your heart. On the clarity call, Sirkie will ask you a few questions to understand what you're working with, which skills you want to grow, and which starting point fits best.

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