Created by

Sirkie Rothman

Find YourParenting Pattern

Feeling stuck in your parenting?

Discover when your natural parenting style is your greatest strength — and when small shifts can make you even more effective.

A mirror for what you already do, not a prescription for what to do next.

Find My Pattern

Free · 2 minutes · private

You'll get your pattern, what's working, and one small shift to try this week.

Created by Sirkie Rothman · M.Ed · NHA Certified Parent Coach · mother of seven

This Matters

Most parenting advice focuses on what to do.

But in real moments, how you respond matters just as much.

When you understand your natural pattern, you can:

  • Stay more steady in hard moments
  • Respond with more clarity
  • Shift things without second-guessing yourself

Believing in the child is the strongest force that will move a child toward success.

— R' Shlomo Hoffman זצ"ל

About Sirkie

Sirkie Rothman

Mother of seven · M.Ed · NHA Certified Parent Coach

Sirkie Rothman is a parenting coach and mother of seven. She works with parents who feel frustrated and burnt out because what they're doing isn't working — and they're not sure what will. Drawing on Torah-based guidance and practical tools, she helps parents shift their approach in a clear, grounded way, leading to calmer homes, stronger connection, and children who grow with confidence and a strong sense of self.

"My 13-year-old said to me last night, 'Mommy, I'm actually a really good kid, right?'

I just held her.

A few weeks ago she was telling me she was the worst kid in the family.

Nothing changed except how I started seeing her — from your weekly Chinuch Torah."

— A mother of seven, from the Chinuch Compass community